Committing to God

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November 10, 2009

 

 

            Missionaries who return home for furlough after years on the field often report a similar reaction upon shopping again in America. Having lived amongst people with little food and even less choice about what food they will eat and having seen the joy and generosity of such people, they often break into tears when seeing the variety and abundance on grocery store shelves. These are not tears of joy but frustration, even shame, over the realization that our wealth results in far less joy than amongst our poverty stricken third world brothers and sisters.

 

            As we pray about committing to give for support of God’s work at St. Pauls in the next year, I pray we will experience the great spiritual paradox that is in giving we receive, that the act of sharing/giving/caring/investing reduces anxiety and can be an act of liberation in such trouble financial times. I pray the false sense of security we tend to develop in “boom” times will be replaced by a deeper trust in God’s provision that never wavers with the ups and downs of financial markets.

 

            We’ll be dedicating our commitments during the services this weekend. Come enjoy the picnic or brunch and look forward to a year of spiritual abundance.

 

Uplink: Lord Jesus, teach me to give my will to peace, joy, security and a deeper experience of life itself…

 

In your name, I pray, Amen

 

 

P.S. Don’t forget to reflect prayerfully on your giving for the next year, to pick up your commitment card in the foyer before worship so we can dedicate them during the service. We’ll enjoy a great meal after the Saturday and 11:00 a.m. Sunday service (fried or smoked turkey) and a burrito breakfast during the 9:00 a.m. Sunday service. Can’t wait to see everybody! The children will be singing in the Sunday services also!

Your Finances, How to Give

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November 3, 2009

 

 

            We’re all praying about our giving to support the ministries of St. Pauls in the next year.  We’ll dedicate that commitment on the weekend of November 14/15 and enjoy a picnic or brunch at each service. Here are some insights that Jan and I find helpful in evaluating our finances.

 

            All psychologists know, and lots of studies as well as surveys have established that, our sense of financial comfort (Do I have enough?) has more to do with comparisons than reality. For instance, when given the choice of making $100,000 and all other co-workers make $110,000 or making $75,000 and they make $60,000, people inevitably pick the lower salary for themselves! This also means that, with our wealth worth less, at least on paper, than it was last year, no one feels rich this year. This despite the reality that a middle class income in the United States is greater than 95% of the people on the globe and 99.9% of the people who ever lived. (New York Times magazine, June 9, 2002)

 

            The key to finding financial comfort will never be in the amount of wealth we accumulate. The key is to change our attitude toward our wealth. Rather than fearfully hoarding or frantically amassing, let’s take the approach Paul suggests in I Timothy 6:18 “that we are to….do good, be rich in good works, generous and ready to share, thus storing up the treasure of a good foundation for the future, so that (we) may take  hold of the life that really is life.”

 

            The life that really is life “stresses giving versus getting, serving versus being served, dying to self versus ego inflation. What a joy to be in a church family filled with people trying to “give” their way to the abundant life.

 

Uplink: Holy Spirit, teach me to trust in God my provider enough that I can give more (money, time, love, talent, energy) and so discover a deeper dimension to life!

                                                                                    In Christ’s name, Amen

God’s Son!

 

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October 28, 2009

 

 

            You are so precious to God. Jesus said He knows the number of hairs on your head; the Psalmist says He counts every tear you shed; the prophet says your image is on the palm of His hand. Really getting this truth can dramatically change your life or another’s. Consider the following:

 

            Fred Craddock is a seminary professor and pastor. He tells the story of the time he      was vacationing in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. Fred and his wife were seated at a table in a restaurant and an old man come up to them and asked, “Are you folks on vacation?” “Yes,” “and we’re having good time.” The old man said, “So what do you do for living?” Fred said, “I’m a preacher.” “Oh!” said the old man. “Let me tell you a preacher story.”

            He sat down by them. The old man said, “I was born an illegitimate child.  I never know who my father was. It was very, very hard on me growing up. The kids in school made fun of me.  Growing up, I didn’t have any friends at all. When I walked around our little town I always felt people were staring at me and looking at me and saying, ‘I wonder who’s the father of that boy.’ I spent a lot of time by myself. I didn’t have any friends. One day a pastor came to town. Everybody was talking about how good he was. I had never gone to church but I decided I’d go to church and hear this guy. So I went. And he was good. So I kept going back. But each time I went to church I’d come in late and I’d leave early so I wouldn’t have to talk to anybody. (sounds like a lot of you.) Then one Sunday I got so caught up listening that I forgot to leave early and the service ended and the people stood up and I couldn’t get out the door. Suddenly I felt a heavy hand on my shoulder. When I turned, that big tall pastor was standing there with his hand on my shoulder looking at me and he said, ‘What’s your name, son? Whose boy are you? Whose son are you:’ I just shook when I heard those words and I heard that question. But before I could say anything that pastor said this, ‘I know who you are. I know who your family is. You have a distinct family resemblance. You’re the son of God!” the man said, “You know, those words changed my life.”

            The old man got up and he left and a waitress came over a little bit later and said, “Do you know who you were talking to?” Fred said, no. She said, “That’s Ben Hooper. Two time governor of Tennessee.”

 

 

Uplink: Holy Spirit, did Jesus leave heaven out of love for me? Did He die for me? Do you reside in me as a proof of God’s love? Show me a sign this day or week to confirm this so I can be a sign for some other child of God. Amen.

Downscaling in your Life

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October 21, 2009

 

 

Gmail to St. Pauls family,

 

            While written 8 years ago by Rev. David Mains, the following is really relevant for today.

 

            The truth is for some, downscaling is both timely and necessary, because they are living beyond their means. They consistently spend more than they take in. So in their case, scaling down involves learning how to live within the confines of what they earn, and in time even setting aside some funds for unexpected expenses.

 

            But scaling down is more than that. It’s getting in the habit of saying, “I could buy it, but I won’t.” This is not easy for people who live in a society where “shop” is no longer primarily a noun but a verb. Early Americans used to go to a shop to buy what they needed. They gave the owner a request and he went to the back room to get the tool, the bolt of material, or whatever their necessities required.

 

            Our world changed when shop owners discovered the advantages of letting their patrons see everything that was available in the back room. When that happened, suddenly customers wanted more than the items on their lists. So over time, more and more merchandise from the back rooms was brought forward and put on display. Today

in North America, we can see practically all the goods from all the back rooms of the world. The array is truly mind-boggling. Just to go to look at it is a fun experience – (to shop (the verb). And the more we see when browsing, the harder it is for us to say no, to limit our purchases to items on a list of needs.

 

            Uplink: Lord you lived simply, indeed hand to mouth during your ministry years. Yet you modeled a life of joy, security, peace, purpose and love. Teach me the secret of great satisfaction through simplification.

 

                                                In Your Name, I pray.   Amen

 

 

P.S. Our renewal is this weekend, come for the first session Friday at 7:00.P.M. in the  sanctuary. (Events Saturday beginning at 9:00 a.m. will be in the Family Life Center). Prayerfully prepare, come ready to learn how to act naturally in the supernatural, how to recognize God’s voice, pray for healing and lots more! Bring a friend.

40 Days of Love

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October 14, 2009

 

 

Gmail to St. Pauls family,

 

            In our “40 Days of Love” emphasis we’re learning how to experience God’s love you can’t share what you don’t have and then to express it in a Christ like manner. Acceptance is a key component in this process. We’ve all been rejected; depending on how young we were and how beloved the rejecting person was, we still carry those scars in varying degrees

 

We end up compensating for this perceived lack by doing almost anything to avoid rejection. We dress in certain brands of clothes, drive the “right.” car or truck or motorcycle, style our hair or joint the right club; almost everything in our life is touched in some way by the yearning for acceptance.

 

How wonderful to realize that we are unconditionally accepted by Jesus. John 6:37 (NCV) “The Father gives me my people. Every one of them will come to me, and I will always accept them.”  The whole point of the cross was that we no longer have to “work” for God’s love. So much acceptance in life is conditional (good grades, good athlete, good behavior etc), it’s wonderful to realize all conditions were met for us by Christ.

 

Can we not do the same? “Accept one another just as Christ accepted you.”  Romans 15:7 (NIV) Remember acceptance is not the same as approval. Jesus accepted and loved the woman condemned to death by stoning without approving of her adultery. (“Go and sin no more.”) Who yearns for acceptance in your circle of friends, family and associates?  Here’s two ways to express it: (1) Look at them. I too often fail to focus on the person in front of me because of thinking or looking ahead to the next item on my agenda. Mark 10:21 says Jesus “looked” at the young entrepreneur who approached him and loved him. The word in Greek is an intensive form of the verb look and is better translated “gazed intently”. Be fully there so those with you feel accepted.  (2)  Listen.

The person speaking is the person being affirmed as the center of attention.  Get them started on a subject dear to them (work, kids, hobby, faith) and watch for a glowing joy as they share. (They’ll think you’re a brilliant conversationalist, by the way.)

 

Uplink: Holy Spirit, show me the person I can accept this week and bring the healing love of Christ to bear upon their heart.

                                                In Jesus Name,  Amen

Expressing Love

 

 

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October 7, 2009

 

 

            In our “40 Days of Love” messages we’re learning that words are a vital way of expressing love. We all understand the love kept inside (and never revealed by words, deeds) doesn’t really count; love felt inside is incomplete and can only become what it is designed to be when expressed for the benefit of its object (the person loved). Interestingly enough Jesus places even more significance on verbal expressions of love.

 

            He explains that our own spiritual condition is enhanced by loving words. In Mark 7:15 (The Living Bible) we read, “Your souls aren’t harmed by what you eat, but by what you think and say.” Not only does a negative word harm those targeted, it also spills back into and pollutes our own inner being. The impact apparently lingers until we “have to give account on judgment day for every careless word…spoken.” (Matthew 12:36)

 

            I hope that remembering the following acrostic will makes things a little easier for us all now and later.

 

            Think before you speak.

                        T – is it truthful?

                        H – helpful?

                        I – inspirational?

                        N – necessary? (or just empty talk)

                        K – kind?

 

“Don’t let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs…” (Ephesians 4:29)

 

Uplink: Holy Spirit, reveal someone today to whom I can speak words of acceptance, affirmation and love; words you can use to bring healing and wholeness into another life.   In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

           

            Outreach: Begin praying now for our renewal weekend Friday evening October 23 – Sunday October 25. Pray God will work in your life and also work to renew and deepen the faith of us all.

40 Days of Love

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September 23, 3009

 

 

            The premise for our “40 Days of Love” campaign is that we are designed by God to be in loving relationships; that we can only experience the “abundant” life offered by Jesus through developing our capability to love; that we will be judged by God, not primarily the level of our faith, knowledge, spiritual gifts or religious practices, but on how well we loved those placed in our lives.

 

            In the coming weeks then we should take heart in the fact that we can learn how to do this the same way we learn everything. We hear (and forget 95% of it in 72 hours); discuss, with others (and remember 50% after 72 hours); we memorize, and increase retention; then when we practice it, try it out and subsequently live it out, that truth becomes a permanent fixed part of our life.

 

            During the coming weeks, I encourage you to read The Relationship Principle of Jesus; attend worship weekly, discuss these truths in a small group and see your life eternally changed but, even more importantly, see the lives of loved ones enriched.  This is about the best offer you’ll get this week.

 

            Not sure you have the time, temperament or strength to do it? I’ll help you with that answer; you don’t! The great news is that God faithfully provides what’s needed for doing what He commands. “For the eyes of the Lord range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him.” (II Chronicles 16:9). You only have to be willing, you only have to try; He’ll faithfully provide all that’s needed.

 

Uplink: Lord Jesus, I really do want to love those placed in my life in a deeper, more abiding way. I’m frustrated when what I feel inside doesn’t get to the outside through my words and actions – O God, you are love; send a little of that my way in the coming weeks!  Amen

Enough Time?

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September 16, 2009

 

 

            Why are we put here? Why didn’t God just birth us directly into heaven? There must be something about life that is a preparation for eternity with God. In Matthew 22:36-39 Jesus gives that answer; the most important lesson we are to learn is to love God, the second most important, to love others. It’s ironic how the progress of the last 50 years has squeezed out this priority. I can remember, before television and computers, spending thirty minutes to an hour over dinner with the family, then another thirty minutes cleaning the table and dishes along with other family members.

 

            How do you eat dinner now? I hope it’s not like Jan and I often do, in front of the television with plates on our lap. Or when the children were teens, Jack always asking to take his dinner into his room where he would watch the TV or work on the computer.

 

            The question should not be how we squeeze out time for relationships and love (one easy way is to reduce TV time; studies show we spend an average of 6 hours daily in front of the TV/computer); rather how do we give top priority to relationships and build other activities around that. We’ll be focusing on this topic in our “40 Days of Love Campaign”. Don’t miss any of the services and either host or participate in a weekly group on the topic. Hosting means

            H ave love for people

            O pen your home or an office area.

            S erve a snack

            T urn on the lesson (DVD)

 

            Uplink: Holy Spirit, may I, this day, look for ways to strengthen my ties with those I love. Speak to me clearly of this as a priority mandated by Jesus for enriching my life.  Amen

 

            Connecting: 85% of the not yet churched people in your life and our culture have a really high regard for Jesus, according to various surveys. Don’t be shy about asking their views on Him, then affirming their spiritual journey by listening in a loving way. Who knows, maybe some day they’ll listen to your views!

Relationship

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September 8, 2009

 

 

Gmail to St. Pauls family,

 

 

There are 2 types of people in this world, I call them people people and project people. I’m the latter.  (I hope you’re not!)  People people hang around and visit after the meeting. I leave quickly for the next chore while the people people enjoy chatting. I can pretend to be one of them but after all these years I’m afraid the facade is transparent to most and they graciously act like they’re leaving (only to stop on the way out and chat some more.)

 

If you are a project person, God’s focus on the priority of love and relationships might be a little more challenging. If you’re a people person, stop reading here and go straight to the prayer. Or you have my permission to start chuckling! Might I suggest that a Christ like “project” would be the investment of a pre-determined amount of time daily for relationship building? This will definitely require time though since that is the purest expression of love.

 

Time spent just being together, time spent doing a favorite activity of the loved one, time spent in such a way that listening to the other is possible (listening is a pure form of affirmation. If you’re a talkative project person, then you really need to learn from our “40 Days of Love” emphasis. Thank God I’m at least not a talkative “project” person!!

 

Uplink: Lord Jesus, you accomplished so much in such a short period of time on earth, yet you were constantly in relationship with others, grant me the wisdom and sensitivity to be truly productive by being authentic in my relationships.

 

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September 8, 2009

 

 

Gmail to St. Pauls family,

 

 

There are 2 types of people in this world, I call them people people and project people. I’m the latter.  (I hope you’re not!)  People people hang around and visit after the meeting. I leave quickly for the next chore while the people people enjoy chatting. I can pretend to be one of them but after all these years I’m afraid the facade is transparent to most and they graciously act like they’re leaving (only to stop on the way out and chat some more.)

 

If you are a project person, God’s focus on the priority of love and relationships might be a little more challenging. If you’re a people person, stop reading here and go straight to the prayer. Or you have my permission to start chuckling! Might I suggest that a Christ like “project” would be the investment of a pre-determined amount of time daily for relationship building? This will definitely require time though since that is the purest expression of love.

 

Time spent just being together, time spent doing a favorite activity of the loved one, time spent in such a way that listening to the other is possible (listening is a pure form of affirmation. If you’re a talkative project person, then you really need to learn from our “40 Days of Love” emphasis. Thank God I’m at least not a talkative “project” person!!

 

Uplink: Lord Jesus, you accomplished so much in such a short period of time on earth, yet you were constantly in relationship with others, grant me the wisdom and sensitivity to be truly productive by being authentic in my relationships.

 

                                                            In Your Name I Pray, Amen

 

                   In Your Name I Pray, Amen

True Friendships

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September 2, 2009

 

 

Gmail to St. Pauls Family,

 

            Long time members (and surrogate mothers) Jo Novotny and Mae Blaha shared this article with me. (You remember, they’re the ones who would interrupt the service in the old sanctuary to walk up and present me with an oversized Snickers bar. I do miss those ladies!)

 

            A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During some

point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other

one in the face.  The one who got slapped was hurt but without saying any-

thing, wrote in the sand: ‘TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN

THE FACE’;

 

They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take

a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started

drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered form the near

drowning, he wrote on a stone ‘TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY

LIFE’;

 

The friend who had slapped and saved his friend asked him, “After I

hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now you write on a stone, why?”

The other friend replied: “When someone hurts us we should write it

down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But when

someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone

where no wind can ever erase it.”

 

LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE

YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE.

 

 

Uplink: Thank you Lord, for long time friends and sources of love in life. May I treasure the blessed and forget the rest!     In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

P.S. Sidewalk Prophets, a young and up and coming contemporary Christian band will be in all 3 services this weekend. What a treat! They’ll also be participating in Universal Studios night of Christian music, so they’re good! Invite a friend and look forward to a great time!